The Humanitarian Boy and His Admirable Efforts

The Humanistic Boy strives every day to fulfill his grandmother's wish. The lovely, studious student Hoang Quynh sends the message "Work in silence so that success can be your voice", know how to set goals and pursue your own dreams.
Childhood was not peaceful
My name is Le Hoang Quynh, born in 2002 in Hanoi. When I was in 6th grade, my parents decided to divorce. My father had to go to a drug rehabilitation center, so I didn't see him again for nearly ten years until 2020. My relationship with my mother wasn't good, so we haven't been in contact for several years.
During my teenage years, I had to learn to be independent, to build my own moral, spiritual and cognitive foundation, things that a normal child would be nurtured by their parents. Without the care, financial and spiritual support of my parents, I think I had to grow up much earlier than my peers.
During the sensitive period of puberty, I was constantly teased, made fun of, discriminated against, and bullied about my appearance and sexual orientation by my classmates. For a long time, I suffered deep mental trauma, always feeling lonely, hating myself and everything around me.
Among the things I learned, the biggest thing is probably learning to be okay with my circumstances, with what happens to me, and learning to encourage myself that "It's okay, I still have myself, and I will build my own life."
During those difficult times, there were two great sources of motivation that “guided” me forward. First, for myself, for a boy who had been abandoned, isolated, and suffered a lot of physical and mental damage. I did not want that pain to be in vain, but wanted to use it to remind myself, just like the saying “What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger”.
Second, because of my grandmother. She loved me so much and protected me when I was little. When we took our kindergarten class photos, we were photographed against a plain background, then our graduation caps and gowns and red diplomas were added. When she saw the photos, she said, “I really want you to graduate from college.” I promised my grandmother that I would graduate from college and she promised to live until that day. However, the terrible cancer took her away while I was studying for my high school graduation exam. Every time I feel down and uncertain, I tell myself, “I have to strive to graduate from college, to make my grandmother happy and proud.”
Brilliant student years at University of Social Sciences and Humanities
Having to learn to grow up on my own makes me look older than my peers. But deep down, I am still a child, still wanting to feel accepted and belong somewhere. I lacked those things from my family and friends in the past, until I got into the University of Social Sciences and Humanities, I felt that this place was HOME.
Here are the teachers in the Department of Archival Science and Office Administration, the students in the K65 Office Administration class, the seniors and friends in the clubs I participate in. This is an open environment, where I can affirm and develop myself, where I can laugh.
One of the happiest and most memorable memories of my student life was my military service in the summer of 2022 at the National Defense Education Center of Hanoi National University in Hoa Lac, also affectionately known as Hola. Although it only lasted for 10 days, these are 10 days that I will never forget. That was when I practiced folding blankets until I was sweating so I wouldn't be punished, when I ate really fast to take a photo with my friend before the sunset on the lawn, when the entire student body sang "August Lantern Procession" to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival, and the Gala on the last night with heroic and emotional performances. Currently, I am studying, participating in scientific research, participating in Youth Union - Association activities, participating in clubs, extracurricular activities, and even working part-time. To balance all the work with my own time for myself and my loved ones, I always make short-term plans by day: doing this in the morning, doing that in the afternoon...
Sometimes I write notes on my phone, sometimes I keep them in my head. By the end of the day, I usually have most of my tasks done. I think the key to time management in particular and life balance in general is health.
Keep yourself healthy and mentally fit. On the one hand, learn to love being busy and enjoy the feeling of being busy, then you will find joy in every job you do. On the other hand, you need to know when to slow down, let yourself relax before getting back to work.
I would like to introduce more about the Office Administration major. This is a major that I feel is extremely suitable for me. Perhaps because I have always had to be in control of my life, I have unintentionally equipped myself with the necessary skills of an administrator such as: time management skills, crisis management skills, goal setting skills, decision making...
The Office Administration program is very interesting and useful, along with many exciting activities and movements for students. I believe that I will become a talented administrator, and studying at Nhan Van is the first step on that journey. This year, my first goal is to achieve the title of “5 Good Students” at the city level. I will need to make comprehensive efforts in 5 different criteria: study, training, physical strength, volunteer activities and integration. My second goal is to raise my cumulative score to 3.6/4.0 to graduate with honors. I always have strong faith that I will achieve that goal in the near future!
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Learn about the industryOffice Administration, Faculty of Archival Science and Office Administration, University of Social Sciences and Humanities, VNU
Positions that Office Administration graduates can take after graduation:
- Specialists working in administrative and general departments in the office area;
- Office secretary or administrative assistant at the offices of all agencies, businesses, organizations; programs, projects;
- Ability to take on leadership positions or be in charge of office departments at enterprises, state agencies and other organizations;
- Lecturer at training facilities on office and office management at intermediate and college levels and some universities;
- Office researcher, office administrator at universities and scientific research facilities;
Ability to study and improve qualifications after graduation:Have the opportunity to study at higher levels and become scientists, work at administrative and office research centers/ institutes/ facilities.
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